Ever since this last patch I have been getting allot of out of memory crashes. About 3 to 6 an hour
. Pre patch I would crash like once or twice in a 12 hour day.
I was able to reduce my crashes by changing certin settings and avoiding certin actions. One note I should make is I have a 64bit os and 16g ram.
I increased my paging file to 50g.
make sure shadows are turned off.
make sure to reduce render distance from 10k to something more manageable.
I've noticed thay crashes happen more when I open containers and construction sites very quickly, so I started right clicking on the object/construction site, mousing over the open/build button for about 5 seconds, and then clicking it. Sounds weird but I swear this has greatly reduced my crashes. Also this may not be as important but I always wait for the object to fully render before clicking on it.
I would also recommend avoiding running great distances if your server has allot of action goin on building and tree wise.
Otherwise I assume the Dev team is aware of this issue from error reports, it seems there is a ticket on Mantis. Patience is advised.