It's hard to say... most server uses mods and have upped the multipliers to help players experience the game faster. Most active servers has to get wiped every couple of weeks due to database corruption.
You wil really have to browse around and check for lower multipliers for skills and other categories. There are official servers
but those are always empty for some reasons...
I suggest to go for a high population server and don't bother too much about the original design, the real MMO is still far ahead and you will have the chance to experience it when the time comes...
Cheers!