I think The Night's Watch might be exactly what you're looking for!
We have a very noob friendly community that helps people get started on the game every day.
If you are interested in the guild, head over to
http://nightswatch.ca If you are just looking for a noob friendly server, then you can find us under "Unofficial NA Reddit Server #1"
The server itself is new as of Oct 16th 8PM EST so we're not very established yet.